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Contrary to the belief that confidence is key, self-doubt is an inherent part of the creative process. Instead of trying to eliminate it, creators should learn to "dance with it." When used as a balancing tool, it serves a great function by acting as a check on your work.
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Instead of only trying to eliminate creative anxiety, reframe it as a motivational tool. The feeling of unease can be the very thing that drives you to perform extra revisions, question assumptions, and push for a higher quality outcome, preventing complacency.
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