Neuroscience shows that forward physical movement during periods of high alertness or stress activates a brain circuit that releases dopamine. This not only provides a sensation of reward in the moment but also neurologically reinforces the motivation to approach similar challenging goals in the future.
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A mental performance coach taught diver Molly Carlson to visualize fear as a piece of paper in front of her eyes. Instead of trying to destroy the paper, she gently shifts it to the side, allowing it to exist without consuming her focus, freeing her to perform.
Instead of only relying on in-the-moment calming techniques, you can proactively increase your overall stress tolerance. Deliberately exposing yourself to heightened alertness in a controlled way, such as through cold showers, trains your nervous system to remain calm during real-life stressful situations.
You cannot simply think your way out of a deep-seated fear, as it is an automatic prediction. To change it, you must systematically create experiences that generate "prediction error"—where the feared outcome doesn't happen. This gradual exposure proves to your brain that its predictions are wrong, rewiring the response over time.
The physiological state of nervousness—heightened alertness and agitation from adrenaline—is identical to that of excitement. Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman explains the emotional difference comes entirely from our cognitive framing, or the top-down label we apply to the physical sensations.
The brain's emotional center is five times stronger than its rational part. When triggered by stress, it shuts down executive function. A deliberate 90-second pause is a powerful antidote that allows the physiological wave of emotion to pass, enabling clearer, more considered decision-making.
Based on the principles of EMDR, intentionally moving your eyes laterally from side-to-side for about 30 seconds can suppress activity in the amygdala. Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman confirms this is a scientifically validated technique for creating a state of reduced alertness before a stressful event like public speaking.
Courage isn't the absence of fear but the decision to act despite it. This reframes bravery from a fixed personality characteristic to a skill that can be developed by choosing to lean into fear and not let it dictate actions.
The common advice to 'protect your mental health' often encourages avoidance. A more effective approach is to 'exercise' it. By actively and intentionally engaging with manageable challenges, you build resilience and expand your mental capacity, much like a muscle.
Contrary to popular belief, accepting reality doesn't lead to inaction. Questioning fearful and limiting thoughts removes the mental clutter that causes procrastination, freeing you to act more decisively and effectively.
Anxiety spikes when you mentally separate from your own capacity to handle future challenges. Instead of focusing on uncontrollable 'what ifs,' the antidote is to reconnect with your agency and ability to respond, regardless of the outcome. Doubling down on your capacity to handle things quiets the alarm.
