To overcome the fear of tasks like cold calling, you need a powerful long-term goal (the 'big pull') that you desire more than the immediate comfort of avoidance. This goal provides the motivation to sacrifice what you want now (ease) for what you want most, making discipline a choice rather than a chore.
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For emotionally draining tasks like outbound prospecting, schedule them for the very beginning of the day. Willpower and emotional energy are finite resources that deplete as the day progresses. By tackling the hardest job first, you leverage your mind when it's most fresh and confident, increasing your chances of success.
Instead of daunting, long call blocks, break prospecting into 5-15 minute 'high-intensity sprints.' Crucially, alternate these sprints with consuming inspirational content like a book or podcast. This creates a feedback loop where manageable action builds momentum and positive input reinforces courage.
Motivation requires both ambition (the desire for a goal) and expectancy (the belief that you can personally achieve it). You can show someone a thousand success stories, but if they don't believe it's possible *for them*, they won't take action. The gate to motivation is personal belief.
The initial goal wasn't a grand vision but a simple, tangible one: sell one item online. This micro-goal made starting less intimidating. Achieving it provided a powerful psychological boost and the momentum to pursue the next small milestone, creating a gradual growth flywheel.
To overcome the paralysis of perfectionism, create systems that force action. Use techniques like 'time boxing' with hard deadlines, creating public accountability by pre-announcing launches, and generating financial stakes by pre-selling offers. These functions make backing out more difficult and uncomfortable than moving forward.
The word "discipline" often has negative connotations. Instead of viewing it as a restriction, redefine it as the specific set of inputs required to achieve a result you genuinely desire. If you don't want the result, the problem is your vision, not your discipline.
Top salespeople aren't just skilled; they've mastered their internal psychology. Most performance issues stem from fear, lack of information, and self-limiting beliefs, which prevent them from taking necessary actions like making calls.
Top performers, like sales expert Jeb Blount and Army Golden Knights, still experience fear before high-stakes activities. They don't eliminate the fear; they manage it by relying on a consistent, practiced routine to push through the initial emotional resistance and execute their tasks effectively.
To overcome dread, mentalist Oz Perlman sets a 24-hour alarm after completing a dreaded task. When the alarm rings a day later, he realizes the anxiety is gone. This trains the brain to recognize that anticipatory dread is temporary and irrational, making it easier to start next time.
The 'Wati-Wat-Wat' (Work On That Thing You Don't Want To Work On Time) method combats procrastination by turning a solo chore into a group activity. By scheduling a dedicated time block to work alongside others on unpleasant tasks, you introduce social rewards and accountability. This rebalances the brain's value calculation, making the dreaded task more palatable.
