Stop looking for external solutions or blaming platforms for your lack of focus. The only way to use social media for work without getting consumed is through raw, personal discipline. It's an internal battle of accountability, not a technical problem to be solved with a 'hack'.

Unable to trust himself, David Choe developed a system where he hired close friends to manage his process addictions. He gave them permission to physically intervene—punching him or dragging him away—if he exceeded pre-agreed limits on gambling or other compulsive behaviors, creating a hard-stop external control.

Lasting financial change comes from building a system, not from sheer self-control. Successful strategies like manipulating friction, adopting an identity, and setting anti-goals work because they rely on structure and pre-made decisions, aligning with human psychology rather than fighting it.

True recovery requires identifying and removing precursor behaviors that, while not the addiction itself, reliably trigger overwhelming cravings. For a sports gambling addict, this meant cutting out all sports media—not just betting apps—to redesign his environment for success.

Instead of focusing on the immediate gratification of an addictive behavior, use logic to forecast its ultimate conclusion. By "playing the tape out," you force yourself to confront the inevitable negative outcome—be it personal ruin, health failure, or relationship destruction—making the initial impulse less appealing.

Lasting behavior change comes from architecting your environment to make good habits the path of least resistance. Ask of any room: "What is this space designed to encourage?" Then, redesign it to make your desired behavior obvious and easy, rather than depending on finite willpower.

When trying to maintain discipline, such as with diet, it's easier to abstain completely than to moderate. Having one drink or one cookie lowers inhibitions, making it harder to stop. Establishing a "bright line" rule of zero is psychologically simpler and more effective than a rule of "just one."

Willpower is an unreliable tool for financial progress. Instead, strategically add small obstacles to curb bad habits (like impulse spending) and remove barriers for good ones (like investing). This environmental design changes behavior more effectively than self-control alone.

The theory of "ego depletion" posits that willpower is a finite daily resource, like a battery. Seemingly frivolous activities like watching TV or playing video games aren't just indulgences; they generate positive emotions that scientifically counteract depletion and restore self-regulation capabilities.