By simply relabeling the feeling of stress as "excitement," you can trigger a different physiological and psychological response. This technique, known as anxiety reappraisal, can lead to measurably better performance in high-pressure situations like public speaking or presentations.
Neuroscientists find that an emotional response lasts only 60-90 seconds. A mood is a prolonged emotion, a conscious or unconscious decision to keep reigniting the initial feeling. Understanding the initial trigger allows you to interrupt the cycle before a fleeting emotion becomes a persistent mood.
The theory of "ego depletion" posits that willpower is a finite daily resource, like a battery. Seemingly frivolous activities like watching TV or playing video games aren't just indulgences; they generate positive emotions that scientifically counteract depletion and restore self-regulation capabilities.
Family psychologist Virginia Satir identified five communication roles (Blamer, Distractor, Placater, Computer, Leveler) that members adopt. Conflict arises not from the issue itself, but from trying to force someone to act outside their ingrained role. Understanding these roles can de-escalate fights.
Your internal emotional state is transmitted to others, even when you try to hide it. Behavioral investigator Vanessa Van Edwards found that subtle micro-expressions induce the same feelings in others, causing them to form a negative or positive opinion about you within the first few seconds of an interaction.