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Contrary to popular belief, happiness often dips from your 20s to 40s. While day-to-day 'enjoyment' falls due to life's demands, 'meaning' rises through career and family investments. This increase in meaning creates a significant happiness payoff in your 50s and 60s.

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The challenging, uncertain, and often stressful period of building a career or company is frequently looked back on as the 'golden years.' People rarely recognize they are in this peak period while living it because they are focused on future anxieties.

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Instead of viewing a career as a climb in seniority over time, frame it as a journey of happiness or contentment. This mental model, plotting happiness on the Y-axis against time, prioritizes enjoying the process and making choices aligned with personal values over simply chasing the next promotion.

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Your 20s-40s Build Meaning, Fueling a Happiness Renaissance After 50 | RiffOn