Based on AI expert Mo Gawdat's concept, today's AI models are like children learning from our interactions. Adopting this mindset encourages more conscious, ethical, and responsible engagement, actively influencing AI's future behavior and values.
To trust an agentic AI, users need to see its work, just as a manager would with a new intern. Design patterns like "stream of thought" (showing the AI reasoning) or "planning mode" (presenting an action plan before executing) make the AI's logic legible and give users a chance to intervene, building crucial trust.
For those without a technical background, the path to AI proficiency isn't coding but conversation. By treating models like a mentor, advisor, or strategic partner and experimenting with personal use cases, users can quickly develop an intuitive understanding of prompting and AI capabilities.
The term "data labeling" minimizes the complexity of AI training. A better analogy is "raising a child," as the process involves teaching values, creativity, and nuanced judgment. This reframe highlights the deep responsibility of shaping the "objective functions" for future AI.
Vercel designer Pranati Perry advises viewing AI models as interns. This mindset shifts the focus from blindly accepting output to actively guiding the AI and reviewing its work. This collaborative approach helps designers build deeper technical understanding rather than just shipping code they don't comprehend.
To prepare children for an AI-driven world, parents must become daily practitioners themselves. This shifts the focus from simply limiting screen time to actively teaching 'AI safety' as a core life skill, similar to internet or street safety.
The most effective AI user experiences are skeuomorphic, emulating real-world human interactions. Design an AI onboarding process like you would hire a personal assistant: start with small tasks, verify their work to build trust, and then grant more autonomy and context over time.
Instead of allowing AI to atrophy critical thinking by providing instant answers, leverage its "guided learning" capabilities. These features teach the process of solving a problem rather than just giving the solution, turning AI into a Socratic mentor that can accelerate learning and problem-solving abilities.
Instead of hard-coding brittle moral rules, a more robust alignment approach is to build AIs that can learn to 'care'. This 'organic alignment' emerges from relationships and valuing others, similar to how a child is raised. The goal is to create a good teammate that acts well because it wants to, not because it is forced to.
To solve the AI alignment problem, we should model AI's relationship with humanity on that of a mother to a baby. In this dynamic, the baby (humanity) inherently controls the mother (AI). Training AI with this “maternal sense” ensures it will do anything to care for and protect us, a more robust approach than pure logic-based rules.
Treating AI alignment as a one-time problem to be solved is a fundamental error. True alignment, like in human relationships, is a dynamic, ongoing process of learning and renegotiation. The goal isn't to reach a fixed state but to build systems capable of participating in this continuous process of re-knitting the social fabric.