Early in his career, Gary Vaynerchuk was told his casual dress and cursing would hold him back. By refusing to change, he built an authentic brand. Over time, professional culture shifted to meet him, proving authenticity is a winning long-term strategy.
Showing up as your "full self" in every situation is ineffective. A better approach is "strategic authenticity," where you adjust your communication style to suit the context (e.g., a board meeting vs. a team lunch) without compromising your fundamental values.
It's paradoxical for a public figure to preach about their own humility. Vaynerchuk bypasses this by creating characters like "Humble Hedgehog." This allows the brand to champion the trait authentically without the founder making self-referential claims.
Contrary to the belief that businesses must appear flawless, sharing behind-the-scenes struggles and unpolished content can build stronger community and loyalty. This raw authenticity resonates more with audiences than a curated image, humanizing the brand and making customers feel like part of the journey.
A manufactured persona feels uncanny and creates a bait-and-switch for employees. Instead, identify a founder's true archetype and strategically amplify the authentic traits most useful for the business, like turning up the volume on a specific aspect of their personality.
When selling to large companies, young founders often mistakenly adopt a formal, corporate persona. This is a mistake. Enterprises are often buying the startup's unique energy and expertise, so being authentic and passionate is more effective than mimicking corporate culture.
Gary Vaynerchuk was told to stop cursing and dress formally to be taken seriously. He refused, and eventually, the business world's norms shifted to accept his style. This shows that if your substance and skill are strong enough, you shouldn't compromise your authentic self to fit in. Be so good the world adapts to you.
An executive who moved from Chicago to Tokyo felt like an imposter and considered changing his leadership style. The best advice he received was the opposite: lean in *more* to who you are. Authenticity is a universal language that transcends cultural and professional barriers.
Jack Conte advises that trying to appeal to everyone results in appealing to no one. Founders and creators who are fearlessly themselves, even if it polarizes some, build the most rabidly loyal communities because they sound like real, relatable people.
Bozoma Saint John reframes the concept of a 'personal brand' as the modern term for 'reputation.' It’s not something you strategically build by mimicking successful people, but rather something that emerges authentically from being consistently yourself. This authenticity builds trust and is ultimately more sustainable.
A successful personal brand is built on connection and authenticity, not a 'wow factor' or a jet-setting life. The key is learning to tell captivating stories about everyday experiences, which allows audiences to relate and connect on a deeper level than they would with an unattainable lifestyle.