A founder reflects on leaving a fulfilling lifestyle business to chase a VC-backed venture. He attributes this to the "Silicon Valley Kool-Aid"—an industry narrative suggesting that if you aren't building a potential billion-dollar company, you lack ambition or are a "loser."

Despite having sold multiple companies, founder Scott Davis's core philosophy is to build a business as if he will own it forever. He argues that focusing on an exit is a "perverse" mindset that distracts from the primary goal: providing genuine, sustainable value to customers, which is the ultimate driver of a company's worth.

The primary error founders make is confusing external achievements (revenue, exit) with internal fulfillment. Financial success should be viewed as a tool that enables a life aligned with your personal values, rather than being the source of fulfillment itself.

Many founders start companies simply because they want the title, not because they are obsessed with a mission. This is a critical mistake, as only a deep, personal passion for a problem can sustain a founder through the inevitable hardships of building a startup.

Many founders who successfully exit their companies feel depressed and unfulfilled, realizing their best idea is behind them. The alternative is to reject the exit-focused mindset and commit to building a durable, lifelong business, finding satisfaction in the infinite game.

Many founders treat their startup as a temporary vehicle to an exit, which can lead to an identity crisis after they "win." A healthier approach is to build a company as a "way of life"—a system of activities you want to engage in for the long term, regardless of specific outcomes.

Contrary to the dream of retiring after an exit, data shows 92% of founders start another project, even those with nine-figure exits. The drive to build is a core part of their identity that a large financial windfall does not eliminate.

Many founders focus on generating personal income, inadvertently creating a job they can't leave or sell. To build a true business asset, you must define an end goal (like a sale) from the beginning and structure operations, processes, and financials accordingly.

Melissa Wood Tepperberg's business grew successfully after taking investment, but it became misaligned with her core values, making her unhappy. She had to reclaim control, even buying out investors, to realign the business with her intuition. Success isn't just growth; it's aligned growth.