A founder reflects on leaving a fulfilling lifestyle business to chase a VC-backed venture. He attributes this to the "Silicon Valley Kool-Aid"—an industry narrative suggesting that if you aren't building a potential billion-dollar company, you lack ambition or are a "loser."

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Silicon Valley's default response to crazy ideas is curiosity, not cynicism, which fosters greater ambition. Crucially, the culture values the experience gained from failure. A founder who raised and lost $50 million is still seen as a valuable bet by investors, a dynamic not found in other ecosystems.

Club Penguin's co-founder warns that accepting VC money creates immense pressure to become a billion-dollar company. This often crushes otherwise successful businesses that could have been profitable at a smaller scale, making founders worse off in the long run.

A founder's deep, intrinsic passion for their company's mission is critical for long-term success. Even with a sound business model, a lack of genuine care leads to burnout and failure when challenges arise. Leaders cannot sustain success in areas they consider a distraction from their "real" passion, like AGI research versus product monetization.

Conventional advice about work-life balance to avoid burnout is counterproductive for founders with extreme ambitions. Building a massive, venture-scale company requires a level of obsessive focus and sacrifice that is inherently unbalanced. For this specific phase of life, prioritizing the company above all else is necessary for success.

Many founders treat their startup as a temporary vehicle to an exit, which can lead to an identity crisis after they "win." A healthier approach is to build a company as a "way of life"—a system of activities you want to engage in for the long term, regardless of specific outcomes.

Contrary to the dream of retiring after an exit, data shows 92% of founders start another project, even those with nine-figure exits. The drive to build is a core part of their identity that a large financial windfall does not eliminate.

The dominant VC narrative demands founders focus on a single venture. However, successful entrepreneurs demonstrate that running multiple projects—a portfolio approach mirrored by VCs themselves—is a viable path, contrary to the "focus on one thing" dogma.

Instead of seeking a soul-fulfilling first venture, focus on a business that pays the bills. This practical approach builds skills and provides capital to pursue your true passion later, without the pressure of monetization.

Founders are warned that accepting investment, no matter the amount, creates an obligation to deliver a 5-10x return. This pressure can force compromises on mission-critical elements, such as switching from organic to conventional materials to improve margins.

Silicon Valley's Narrative Pressures Founders to Abandon Profitable Lifestyle Businesses | RiffOn