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Being interrupted by a direct superior reflects an expected power dynamic and likely does not harm your credibility. It's more strategic to conserve your social capital and focus on addressing interruptions from peers or juniors, as those can actively undermine your perceived authority.

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As leaders become more senior, people are less likely to share bad news or dissenting opinions—they become 'taller, funnier, better looking.' To break this echo chamber, leaders should let junior people speak first in meetings, ensuring a diversity of opinions before their own view narrows the conversation.

Effective product managers recognize and adapt to social power dynamics. This can mean participating in uncomfortable but necessary social rituals, like laughing a bit too hard at a boss's joke. Completely opting out of this 'game' can be perceived as aloofness and may result in being overlooked.

When interrupted, avoid eye contact with the interrupter to prevent shifting the group's focus to them. Instead, look at others, use a hand gesture to signal 'stop,' state your intention to finish ("I'm going to finish"), and crucially, do not pause, as pausing invites them to continue.

Instead of presuming an employee is always available, managers should formally ask for a moment of their time (“Is now a good time to chat?"). This simple reframing treats the conversation as an appointment, sending a powerful signal that the manager respects the employee's focus and workload.

A subtle but effective way to manage workplace interruptions is to avoid physically orienting your body toward the person. Acknowledge them verbally to not be rude, but keep your posture directed at your work. This non-verbal cue signals that the conversation should be brief, allowing you to maintain focus without creating conflict.

Don't passively wait for a talkative person to finish. Take control by interrupting with clarifying questions like, "Hang on, can you help me understand what you mean by that?" This is perceived not as rude but as engagement, and it steers their monologue toward useful information.

Interruptions in meetings are often a manifestation of power hierarchies, both formal (organizational rank) and informal (perceived status). This reframes the act from simple rudeness to a signal about power dynamics within a group, explaining why certain demographics interrupt others more frequently.

Directly asking a senior leader 'why' can feel confrontational. Instead, create psychological safety for them. Start by mirroring their excitement and aligning with the overarching business goal. This frames your questions as collaborative inquiry rather than a challenge to their authority.

To give feedback to a superior, focus on positive reinforcement. When your boss demonstrates a behavior you want to see more of, such as listening to everyone in a meeting, praise it specifically after the fact. This approach rewards the positive and is more likely to be heard and repeated than direct criticism.

When meeting senior people, you focus on impressing them and thus do most of the talking. When meeting junior people, they try to impress you. This dynamic shift means you learn far more from conversations with those a few rungs down the ladder, making it a better trade for your time.

Pick Your Battles: Let Your Boss's Interruptions Go, But Address Those From Peers | RiffOn