Before asking an explorative question, get consent with "Do you mind if I ask a question about that?" This leverages the 'foot-in-the-door' principle; securing a small 'yes' makes the prospect psychologically more likely to engage with your next question.
Instead of directly challenging an objection, reframe it by suggesting there's a deeper context. Using phrases like 'it sounds like there's a story behind that' encourages the prospect to volunteer the real root cause of their hesitation, transforming a confrontation into a collaborative discovery process.
A silent dissenter won't respond to "What are your concerns?". Instead, "soft-float" several potential objections, like giving them a multiple-choice question (e.g., "Is it our integrations, our pricing, or something else?"). This lowers the barrier for them to engage and allows them to latch onto a specific point, revealing their true apprehension.
To uncover the true reason behind an objection, frame your follow-up question as a benefit to the prospect. Using the phrase 'just so no one else cold calls you again' reframes your request for information as a service, making them more likely to open up.
Direct questions in sales or leadership can feel confrontational. Prefacing them with 'I'm curious...' completely changes the dynamic from an interrogation to a collaborative effort to understand. This simple linguistic shift builds trust, encourages openness, and turns transactions into lasting relationships.
Instead of immediately countering an objection, validate it to make the prospect feel heard. This creates a 'sigh of relief,' moving them from a reactive state to a conversational one, which makes them more receptive to your next question.
Buyers are often too polite to voice concerns. To get past this, actively ask what parts of the presentation are unclear, challenging, or seem like they won't work. This "leaning into the negative" provides a library of information to tailor your next steps and address their real blockers.
When a prospect gives a vague, early objection like 'not interested,' provide them with a few common, plausible reasons to choose from. For example: 'Is it bad timing, you're happy with your current vendor, or just not a priority?' This makes it easy for them to give an honest answer rather than ending the call.
To gain buy-in, guide people to your desired outcome through a curated series of questions. This allows them to feel like they are discovering the solution themselves, creating a powerful sense of ownership. They are more likely to commit to a conclusion they feel they helped create.
When faced with pushback like 'we already do that,' use the Ledge, Disrupt, and Ask (LDA) technique. Start by agreeing with them ('That's perfect, because...') to lower tension. This disarms them, allowing you to disrupt their assumption and then ask for the meeting without arguing.
Instead of fighting an objection, agree with it ("Equinox is a great gym..."). This removes pressure and disarms the prospect, making them more open to a follow-up question. This "Mr. Miyagi" method absorbs the objection's momentum, allowing you to redirect the conversation and uncover the real issue.