To perform a dangerous, world-first dive, Carlson consciously uses overwhelming positivity to override her brain's fear signals. She calls this "gaslighting" herself into believing she's capable, a technique for extreme mental preparation under pressure.
A mental performance coach taught diver Molly Carlson to visualize fear as a piece of paper in front of her eyes. Instead of trying to destroy the paper, she gently shifts it to the side, allowing it to exist without consuming her focus, freeing her to perform.
Instead of using simple affirmations, Helms records videos of himself giving specific pep talks. Watching these during difficult moments creates "self-distancing," allowing him to receive encouragement from a calmer, more objective version of himself who isn't caught up in the current failure.
Molly Carlson, who has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, finds that the three seconds she's in the air during a high dive are the most silent her brain ever is. The extreme physical risk and focus required create a temporary state of pure presence, making the dangerous act a powerful mental escape.
For individuals with a high public profile or a famous family, the intense social pressure and potential for embarrassment from failure can act as a powerful motivator. This "can't fail" mentality becomes a driving force for success, turning a potential source of anxiety into a strategic advantage.
You cannot simply think your way out of a deep-seated fear, as it is an automatic prediction. To change it, you must systematically create experiences that generate "prediction error"—where the feared outcome doesn't happen. This gradual exposure proves to your brain that its predictions are wrong, rewiring the response over time.
After facing a career-ending eating disorder driven by toxic sports culture, Molly Carlson found a new "why" for her sport. Her motivation is no longer just winning, but using her platform to ensure no young athlete feels alone in their mental health journey, a purpose that transcends personal achievement.
When facing the immense pressure of doing Oprah's eyebrows on live TV, Anastasia Soare’s calm came from having performed the task thousands of times. This deep, repetitive mastery creates an autopilot mode that overrides fear and ensures quality performance when the stakes are highest.
Instead of treating fear as a psychological flaw, view it as a neutral, physical vibration in the body. This atomic perspective, inspired by physics, allows you to step out of self-judgment and use the energy creatively. You stop managing the 'idea' of anxiety and start experiencing the raw sensation.
High diver Molly Carlson explains that fear is a necessary safety mechanism in her sport. Her worst injury occurred not from a difficult dive, but when she was overly comfortable and distracted while filming content. This highlights that in high-risk fields, complacency is more dangerous than fear.
Diver Molly Carlson describes how the pressure to achieve her Olympic dream led to an eating disorder and severe anxiety. When she narrowly failed to qualify, the overwhelming feeling was relief. This "failure" liberated her from a toxic environment, allowing her to seek help and find a healthier path.