A mental performance coach taught diver Molly Carlson to visualize fear as a piece of paper in front of her eyes. Instead of trying to destroy the paper, she gently shifts it to the side, allowing it to exist without consuming her focus, freeing her to perform.

Malala challenges the idea that resilience means quickly bouncing back. Years after her attack, she experienced panic attacks. She defines true bravery as continuing your mission even while actively managing fear and mental health challenges, which is the real form of resilience.

Molly Carlson, who has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, finds that the three seconds she's in the air during a high dive are the most silent her brain ever is. The extreme physical risk and focus required create a temporary state of pure presence, making the dangerous act a powerful mental escape.

Molly Carlson created the "Brave Gang" online community to support others, but it has become her own shield against relapse. When she struggles with body image or anxiety, sharing with the community provides the positive reinforcement she needs to stay strong, creating a powerful personal support loop.

Shift the focus of mental health from coping and feeling comfortable to building the capacity to handle life's challenges. The goal isn't to feel better, but to become a better, more resilient person through difficult experiences.

To perform a dangerous, world-first dive, Carlson consciously uses overwhelming positivity to override her brain's fear signals. She calls this "gaslighting" herself into believing she's capable, a technique for extreme mental preparation under pressure.

The common advice to 'protect your mental health' often encourages avoidance. A more effective approach is to 'exercise' it. By actively and intentionally engaging with manageable challenges, you build resilience and expand your mental capacity, much like a muscle.

High diver Molly Carlson explains that fear is a necessary safety mechanism in her sport. Her worst injury occurred not from a difficult dive, but when she was overly comfortable and distracted while filming content. This highlights that in high-risk fields, complacency is more dangerous than fear.

Diver Molly Carlson describes how the pressure to achieve her Olympic dream led to an eating disorder and severe anxiety. When she narrowly failed to qualify, the overwhelming feeling was relief. This "failure" liberated her from a toxic environment, allowing her to seek help and find a healthier path.