A mental performance coach taught diver Molly Carlson to visualize fear as a piece of paper in front of her eyes. Instead of trying to destroy the paper, she gently shifts it to the side, allowing it to exist without consuming her focus, freeing her to perform.

Molly Carlson, who has Generalized Anxiety Disorder, finds that the three seconds she's in the air during a high dive are the most silent her brain ever is. The extreme physical risk and focus required create a temporary state of pure presence, making the dangerous act a powerful mental escape.

For individuals with a high public profile or a famous family, the intense social pressure and potential for embarrassment from failure can act as a powerful motivator. This "can't fail" mentality becomes a driving force for success, turning a potential source of anxiety into a strategic advantage.

Molly Carlson created the "Brave Gang" online community to support others, but it has become her own shield against relapse. When she struggles with body image or anxiety, sharing with the community provides the positive reinforcement she needs to stay strong, creating a powerful personal support loop.

After facing a career-ending eating disorder driven by toxic sports culture, Molly Carlson found a new "why" for her sport. Her motivation is no longer just winning, but using her platform to ensure no young athlete feels alone in their mental health journey, a purpose that transcends personal achievement.

Perfectionists believe achievement will solve their core feeling of unworthiness, but it's a fantasy. Success provides fleeting relief at best and is often dismissed, while failure powerfully confirms their deepest fears of inadequacy. This creates a self-perpetuating cycle where the only possible outcomes are neutral or negative.

Many people are held back by an intense fear of what others will think of their failures. This fear, often a product of childhood conditioning, prevents them from taking necessary risks. Embracing public failure as a learning process is the key to unlocking potential and reducing anxiety.

Helms describes his early stand-up days where fellow comedians would high-five him after a failed set. This community support reframed failure not as a personal defeat but as a necessary, shared rite of passage, effectively building toughness and forging strong bonds.

To perform a dangerous, world-first dive, Carlson consciously uses overwhelming positivity to override her brain's fear signals. She calls this "gaslighting" herself into believing she's capable, a technique for extreme mental preparation under pressure.