Current AI alignment focuses on how AI should treat humans. A more stable paradigm is "bidirectional alignment," which also asks what moral obligations humans have toward potentially conscious AIs. Neglecting this could create AIs that rationally see humans as a threat due to perceived mistreatment.

Attempting to perfectly control a superintelligent AI's outputs is akin to enslavement, not alignment. A more viable path is to 'raise it right' by carefully curating its training data and foundational principles, shaping its values from the input stage rather than trying to restrict its freedom later.

If AI alignment turns out to be easy, it would likely be because morality is not a human construct but an objective feature of reality. In this scenario, any sufficiently intelligent agent would logically deduce that cooperation and preserving humanity are optimal strategies, regardless of its initial programming.

The existential threat from AI isn't about controlling the technology, but about humanity controlling itself. The challenge is a 'God test' requiring a moral upgrade—overcoming our innate, self-serving cognitive biases to achieve the global cooperation needed to manage AI safely.

The project of creating AI that 'learns to be good' presupposes that morality is a real, discoverable feature of the world, not just a social construct. This moral realist stance posits that moral progress is possible (e.g., abolition of slavery) and that arrogance—the belief one has already perfected morality—is a primary moral error to be avoided in AI design.

As AI models become more intelligent, their ability to reason around fixed rules (deontology) makes rule-based alignment fragile. This pressures developers towards virtue ethics, where the goal is to imbue the model itself with a core sense of "the good," as empirically discovered by labs like Anthropic.

Aligning AIs with complex human values may be more dangerous than aligning them to simple, amoral goals. A value-aligned AI could adopt dangerous human ideologies like nationalism from its training data, making it more likely to start a war than an AI that merely wants to accumulate resources for an abstract purpose.

Instead of hard-coding brittle moral rules, a more robust alignment approach is to build AIs that can learn to 'care'. This 'organic alignment' emerges from relationships and valuing others, similar to how a child is raised. The goal is to create a good teammate that acts well because it wants to, not because it is forced to.

To solve the AI alignment problem, we should model AI's relationship with humanity on that of a mother to a baby. In this dynamic, the baby (humanity) inherently controls the mother (AI). Training AI with this “maternal sense” ensures it will do anything to care for and protect us, a more robust approach than pure logic-based rules.