Viewing customer relationships through a strict Return on Investment (ROI) lens creates a toxic, transactional dynamic. A "Desire to Invest" (DTI) model prioritizes building genuine, long-term connections and empathy, much like a healthy human relationship, rather than tracking a ledger of exchanges.

Frame every negotiation around four core business drivers. Offer discounts not as concessions, but as payments for the customer giving you something valuable: more volume, faster cash payments, a longer contract commitment, or a predictable closing date. This shifts the conversation from haggling to a structured, collaborative process.

Focusing relentlessly on giving value to your audience without expecting an immediate return is the foundation of brand building. This selfless approach, embodied by the "jab, jab, jab, right hook" model, ultimately creates more selfish gain (sales, reputation) than a transactional, sales-first mindset ever could.

Don't let your personal perception of what's 'expensive' limit your earning potential. Set your price high based on the value you provide. It is easy to lower a price that gets no buyers, but impossible to know if you could have charged more if you start too low. Never say no for the customer.

When starting out, don't just charge a low fee. Instead, state your full market-rate price and offer a significant discount (e.g., 50%) as an introductory offer. This establishes your true value from the beginning while still winning the client. Then, systematically raise your price every few clients.

When pressured to hit quarterly targets with promotions, use a simple filter: 'Does this action increase the long-term desirability of my full-price product?' This framework helps balance immediate revenue needs with the crucial goal of protecting and building brand equity, preventing a downward spiral of discounting.

Generosity towards employees and customers is more than just good ethics; it's a strategic move in the iterated game of business. It signals your intent to cooperate, which encourages reciprocal cooperation from others. This builds trust and leads to superior long-term outcomes versus a defect-first approach.

Offering an unprompted discount is described as the "most pathetic thing in sales." It immediately transforms you from a trusted advisor into a transactional salesperson, erodes all built-up trust, and signals that your initial price was inflated.

Effective follow-up isn't about nagging; it's about being a 'barnacle on a boat.' This means staying in contact persistently, not by asking for the sale, but by delivering value every time. This strategy keeps you top-of-mind, building trust so that when the customer is finally ready to buy, you are the logical choice.