Successful founders prioritize cash upfront over potentially larger payouts from complex earnouts. Earnouts often underperform because founders lose control of the business's future performance, leading to dissatisfaction despite a higher on-paper valuation.

Don't wait until you're completely exhausted to sell your company, as buyers will sense your desperation and gain the advantage. The ideal time to exit is when your passion for the market wanes or growth slows, allowing you to negotiate from a position of strength before burnout sets in.

The primary error founders make is confusing external achievements (revenue, exit) with internal fulfillment. Financial success should be viewed as a tool that enables a life aligned with your personal values, rather than being the source of fulfillment itself.

To avoid emotional, performance-chasing mistakes, write down your selling criteria in advance and intentionally exclude recent performance from the list. This forces a focus on more rational reasons, such as a broken investment thesis, manager changes, excessive fees, or shifting personal goals, thereby preventing reactionary decisions based on market noise.

An exit that provides a significant financial win but isn't enough to retire on can be a powerful motivator. It acts as a 'proof point' that validates the founder's ability while leaving them hungry for a much larger outcome, making them more driven than founders who are either pre-success or have achieved a life-changing exit.

Achieving external markers of success, like a multi-million dollar exit, often fails to provide a sense of accomplishment. Instead, it can lead to feelings of emptiness, anxiety, and imposter syndrome because internal self-worth was tied to the struggle, not the outcome.

A founder's decision to sell was triggered by her first-ever panic attack during a casual conversation about the business's future. This intense physical reaction served as an undeniable gut signal that her ego-driven push for the next funding round was the wrong path, prompting her to explore an exit.

After selling his company, the founder experienced six months of bliss followed by a period of feeling useless and lacking purpose. This 'valley of shadows' is a common but rarely discussed phenomenon where accomplished founders struggle with a loss of identity and intensity, ultimately driving them to build again.

The number one reason founders fail is not a lack of competence but a crisis of confidence that leads to hesitation. They see what needs to be done but delay, bogged down by excuses. In a fast-moving environment, a smart decision made too late is no longer a smart decision.