Selling a business often triggers a period of depression. A founder's self-worth is deeply intertwined with the daily grind and pressures of their company. When that is removed, they experience a significant loss and must redefine their identity outside of their work.

Successful founders prioritize cash upfront over potentially larger payouts from complex earnouts. Earnouts often underperform because founders lose control of the business's future performance, leading to dissatisfaction despite a higher on-paper valuation.

While 8% of founders pay themselves nothing to maximize reinvestment for a future exit, this strategy is often regretted. Even among founders who achieved a multi-million dollar exit, many later wished they had paid themselves at least a small salary to improve their quality of life during the building phase.

Despite having the funds, a majority of founders regret making large 'trophy' purchases right after selling. The sentiment that 'the things you own end up owning you' holds true, as these assets add new responsibilities and stress during a major life adjustment.

Contrary to the dream of retiring after an exit, data shows 92% of founders start another project, even those with nine-figure exits. The drive to build is a core part of their identity that a large financial windfall does not eliminate.

An exit that provides a significant financial win but isn't enough to retire on can be a powerful motivator. It acts as a 'proof point' that validates the founder's ability while leaving them hungry for a much larger outcome, making them more driven than founders who are either pre-success or have achieved a life-changing exit.

Achieving external markers of success, like a multi-million dollar exit, often fails to provide a sense of accomplishment. Instead, it can lead to feelings of emptiness, anxiety, and imposter syndrome because internal self-worth was tied to the struggle, not the outcome.

Despite a $50 million exit from their previous company, the Everflow founders intentionally limited their initial investment to a few hundred thousand dollars and didn't take salaries for two years. They believed capital scarcity forces focus and efficiency, preventing wasteful spending while they were still figuring out the product.

Beyond a certain point, more money doesn't equal more happiness. Founder Jacqueline Johnson pinpoints $4-5 million in liquid assets as the threshold where your money starts working for you, providing security and freedom without the complexities of vast wealth.