Prospects often describe wants (e.g., "a more efficient system"), which are not true problems. Asking about the motivation behind their desire forces them to articulate the underlying pain that actually drives a purchase decision.

To get unbiased feedback, don't mention your product. Instead, ask prospects about their #1 challenge. If they organically bring up the problem your product solves, you've found a real pain point and strong market pull.

Instead of searching for vague 'pain,' founders should look for specific 'pull points.' True pull exists only when a customer has a project they cannot delay and their existing options are insufficient to complete it. Both conditions must be met to signal genuine purchase intent and a high-priority problem worth solving.

Most problems customers describe are "pain points" they won't act on. You can't distinguish these from real, actionable demand ("pull") through interviews alone. The only true test is presenting a viable solution and attempting to sell it. Their reaction—whether they try to pull it from you—is the only reliable signal.

When a prospect asks if your product does something, it’s a confession that their current process is failing. Instead of just answering "yes," use it as a discovery opportunity. Ask, "How do you currently do that today?" to uncover the underlying problem and tailor your demo to solve it directly.

Instead of leading impact questions like "How much money are you losing?", gently push the prospect away to see if they pull you back. Asking "Is this a top priority or more of a one-off?" prompts an honest assessment and avoids making them feel like you're setting a sales trap.

Instead of asking what a prospect dislikes about a competitor, which elicits low-priority pain points, directly challenge them by asking, 'Isn't that option good enough?' This forces a true buyer to defend their need and articulate the critical gap your product fills. A non-committal answer immediately disqualifies them as a low-intent lead.

The traditional sales mindset ("How do I make them want this?") is flawed. A "Pull" mindset inverts this entirely by asking, "What urgent project are they already trying to accomplish, and are they blocked?" The focus shifts from product persuasion to identifying and resolving an existing blockage.

Instead of pitching a customer, ask them, "Why did you decide to get on this call?" and "Why now?" This forces the prospect to articulate their own pain and why they believe you are the solution, reversing the sales dynamic and revealing core buying motivations.