When a large company acquires a startup, the natural tendency is to impose its standardized processes. Successful integration requires a balance: knowing which systems to standardize for leverage while allowing the acquired team to maintain its freewheeling, startup-style execution.

When an acquisition supplants an internal project, the messaging is crucial for morale. Position the internal team's work as a successful R&D phase that validated the market need and informed the "buy" decision. This celebrates their contribution and frames the acquisition as an acceleration of their validated strategy.

Successful large-scale acquirers remain nimble, flexing their own processes to suit the acquired company rather than force-fitting it into a rigid corporate structure. This preserves the culture and talent that made the company valuable, preventing value destruction and keeping the new team engaged.

Earnouts rewarding only the acquired team's siloed performance create a major integration roadblock. This structure incentivizes them to hoard resources and avoid collaboration, directly undermining the goal of creating a unified culture and destroying potential cross-functional value.

Palo Alto Networks' M&A playbook defies convention. Instead of integrating an acquisition under existing managers, they often replace their own internal team with the acquired leaders. The logic is that the acquired team won in the market with fewer resources, making them better equipped to lead that strategy forward.

To avoid cultural dilution post-acquisition, the smaller company can maintain its identity by operating as a separate business entity within the larger organization. This allows them to preserve unique operational cadences and internal collaboration models, like Splunk's 'village' approach, amidst the broader integration process.

During a merger, prioritize people over process. Technical integration is secondary to building trust between teams. Use simple, cultural activities like joint happy hours and "show-and-tells" about the tech stack to humanize the engineering effort and foster empathetic collaboration early on.

A one-size-fits-all integration can destroy the culture that made an acquisition valuable. When State Street acquired software firm CRD, it intentionally broke from its standard process, allowing CRD to keep its brand identity, facilities, and even email domain to preserve its creative culture and retain key talent.

Instead of only the buyer investigating the target, successful M&A involves "reverse due diligence," where the target is educated about the buyer's company. This transparency helps the target team understand how they will fit, fostering excitement and alignment for the post-close journey.