In a rising market, the investors taking the most risk generate the highest returns, making them appear brilliant. However, this same aggression ensures they will be hurt the most when the market turns. This dynamic creates a powerful incentive to increase risk-taking, often just before a downturn.

Top investors experience an "asymmetry of emotion." The pleasure of significant gains is muted—a feeling of satisfaction rather than euphoria. However, the pain of losing capital, particularly during irrational market events, is disproportionately intense, driven by the responsibility of managing other people's money.

A common early mistake is for couples to try settling terms amicably before involving professionals. The spouse with less financial information often makes critical concessions without understanding their rights or the true value of the assets, leading to inequitable outcomes.

Molly observed that extremely wealthy players reacted to losses with disproportionate fear and anger, despite the amounts being trivial to their net worth. This reveals that for high-achievers, losing triggers a deep-seated fear of losing control, making it a powerful psychological threat, not just a financial one.

The most under-discussed lesson from the LTCM collapse was not firm-level leverage, but the personal failure of its partners to apply a robust risk framework (like expected utility) when deciding how much of their own wealth to invest in their fund.

David Cohen reveals that some savvy LPs investigate a General Partner's personal life, such as their marriage. While seemingly invasive, this is a strategic move to gauge stability and de-risk their investment, as significant personal disruptions can detract from a GP's focus and fund performance.

Men's higher tolerance for risk makes them more likely to take massive bets to accumulate wealth. Conversely, women's typically more developed risk-assessment skills make them better at preserving that wealth, suggesting a powerful dynamic for married couples.

Divorce lawyer James Sexton theorizes that the process of negotiating a prenup forces couples to have brave, vulnerable conversations. This builds a crucial skill set for navigating future conflicts, potentially lowering their likelihood of divorce.

Divorce can be financially devastating, potentially erasing decades of wealth through legal fees and asset division. Therefore, choosing a life partner is not just an emotional decision but a crucial financial one. Ensuring financial compatibility and considering a prenuptial agreement are vital risk management strategies.