Mental toughness isn't about forcing a perfect plan. It's about being adaptable. When you're low on time or energy, do a shorter or easier version of your habit. This "bend but don't break" approach prevents you from quitting altogether, making you more resilient and consistent long-term.

Resilience isn't a vague trait; it's a measurable ability to recover from setbacks. Golfer Scotty Scheffler bounces back from a bad hole with a good one 62% of the time, versus the tour average of 18%. This shows how a strong 'why' directly translates to superior, quantifiable performance under pressure.

The key differentiator for top performers is that their mind overrules their feelings. Feelings suggest quitting, offer excuses, and lead to overthinking. A strong mind makes a decision and executes, driving resilience and action despite emotional resistance or doubt.

Success requires resilience, which is built by experiencing and recovering from small failures. Engaging in activities with public stakes, like sports or public speaking, teaches you to handle losses, bounce back quickly, and develop the mental fortitude needed for high-stakes endeavors.

Successful people don't have perfect days. The real metric for progress is your 'bounce back rate'—the speed at which you recover and get back on track after a failure or misstep. Focus on resilience over flawlessness.

Beyond simple resilience, "post-traumatic growth" is the scientifically-backed idea that all humans can use adversity to build a psychological immune system. Overcoming challenges creates a memory of capability, making you better equipped to handle future adversity, from losing a deal to losing a job.

Shift the focus of mental health from coping and feeling comfortable to building the capacity to handle life's challenges. The goal isn't to feel better, but to become a better, more resilient person through difficult experiences.

Steve Garrity maintains perspective during high-stress situations, like a 2 a.m. contract negotiation, by comparing them to his worst days battling cancer. This "perspective reframing" technique diminishes the perceived severity of current challenges, fostering grit. Any professional can adopt this by using their own past adversities as a benchmark.

The common advice to 'protect your mental health' often encourages avoidance. A more effective approach is to 'exercise' it. By actively and intentionally engaging with manageable challenges, you build resilience and expand your mental capacity, much like a muscle.