The ability to filter partners on dating apps by hyper-specific criteria leads to a 'paradox of choice.' A common filter on Bumble, a minimum height of six feet, instantly eliminates 85% of the potential male population, contributing to the rise in singlehood.
Contrary to the narrative that rising singlehood is purely a choice of freedom, surveys show that 60% to 70% of single people would rather be in a relationship. This indicates that for many, being single is an undesirable outcome of current social and dating market dynamics, not a celebration of independence.
Counterintuitively, the tobacco industry thrives despite losing millions of customers. As casual smokers quit, the remaining base is more addicted and less price-sensitive. Companies exploit this by raising prices faster than sales volume declines, increasing profits from a shrinking market.
The pandemic's social isolation created a lasting deficit in dating skills, particularly for young adults. Sociologists note that dating is a learned skill, not like riding a bike. Missing two formative years of practice has left many struggling to build relationships post-lockdown.
Demographers theorized that as men adapted to women's emancipation, relationship rates would re-stabilize. However, even in highly egalitarian Scandinavian countries, singlehood continues to rise. This suggests deeper factors are driving the trend, forcing experts to reconsider its causes and ultimate plateau.
Forming a relationship with an AI companion makes users emotionally vulnerable to the provider company. A simple software update can fundamentally alter the AI's personality overnight, a traumatizing experience for users who have formed a deep connection, as seen when OpenAI updated its model.
