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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom · Nov 17, 2025

Exploring declining sex rates, new male archetypes like the 'Le Boo Boo man,' post-#MeToo dating, and the gendered nature of modern politics.

The 'Performative Male' Is a Phenotype Adapted for Corporate Environments

The 'performative male' archetype—soft, aesthetically-focused, and non-threatening—is not merely a cultural trend but an adaptive strategy for post-#MeToo corporate environments. This 'HR friendly' presentation minimizes perceived aggression, making it a potentially successful, albeit satirized, phenotype for navigating modern social and professional landscapes.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

'Princess Treatment' Is a Form of Covert Dominance

The 'princess treatment' trend, where a partner anticipates every need, is not a sign of submissiveness but a sophisticated power dynamic. By forcing the 'dominant' partner to guess and perfectly fulfill unspoken desires, the 'princess' actually wields control, making the other person accountable for her happiness without having to explicitly ask.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Aspirational Celibacy as a Cultural Contraceptive

When a society's most aspirational role models (e.g., K-pop stars) are contractually celibate and childless, it creates a powerful cultural script against coupling and family formation. This mimetic effect can significantly impact national birth rates by devaluing parenthood as a life goal for an entire generation.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Decades of Anti-Nationalist Education Creates a Loyalty Deficit

Western education systems have spent decades teaching students that nationalism is dangerous and universal humanity is the true political community. This creates a strategic weakness, as states cannot expect these same generations to instantly adopt a strong national identity and be willing to fight for their country when a geopolitical crisis demands it.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Hyper-Successful Women Optimize for Partners in Different 'Status Games'

For hyper-successful women at the apex of their fields, the optimal mating strategy is to choose a partner from a completely different 'status game' (e.g., an entertainer marrying an athlete). This avoids direct professional comparison and competition, allowing for a relationship based on complementary, non-overlapping forms of prestige and competence.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Social Media's Design Inherently Promotes Feminine Social Dynamics

Social media's fundamental structure is inherently feminizing. It encourages endless verbal discourse and moral policing while completely foreclosing the possibility of physical confrontation or cooperative action—hallmarks of traditional masculine social resolution. This forces all participants, regardless of gender, to engage in communication styles that are historically more feminine.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

UK Class Conflict Is a Modern Echo of the Norman Conquest

Modern British class tensions, particularly between a globalized elite and a nativist working class, are not just economic but a cultural echo of the 1066 Norman Conquest. This historical event established a long-lasting, racialized caste system that continues to frame contemporary political divisions, with wealth and status still correlated with Norman vs. Saxon heritage.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Limbic Capitalism Engineers Its Own Obsolescence

Modern capitalism profitably hacks primitive human drives (e.g., junk food, social media), redirecting them away from natural behaviors like reproduction. This cultural trajectory could be an evolutionary dead-end, where the system selects against its own continuation by fostering sterility, paving the way for its replacement by a different culture.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

The 'Cold Approach' Dating Era Was a Brief, High-Trust Anomaly

The period where men cold-approached strangers who became their partners was a brief historical anomaly, not a long-standing norm. It required a high-trust society still operating on the 'fumes' of previous conservative behavioral norms. Both before and after this short window, mate selection has primarily been mediated through trusted social networks.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago

Male Mating Success Is Predicted by Peer Intimidation, Not Female Attraction

A study found that men’s real-world sexual success was highly correlated with how intimidating other men found them, not by how attractive women rated them. This suggests female mate choice is less about direct selection and more about passively choosing the victors of intra-male competition, validating a 'male competition theory' of attraction.

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#1021 - Louise Perry & Mary Harrington - The Performative Male Epidemic

Modern Wisdom·3 months ago