Marketing messages should appeal to two distinct buyer motivations. Some are drawn to positive future outcomes ("painting possibility"), while others are driven to escape current struggles ("running from the pain"). Effective campaigns test and incorporate both angles to maximize reach and resonance with a wider audience.

Buyers are motivated either by moving toward a desired outcome (possibility) or away from a problem (pain). Marketers often unconsciously favor one style based on their own personality. Crafting copy that addresses both motivations allows you to resonate with a broader, more diverse audience.

A critical mistake in content creation for sales is leading with a product pitch. Instead, content should share insights that highlight a customer's problem, sparking a conversation. This strategy positions the salesperson as a trusted advisor who guides the buyer to the solution, rather than just a vendor pushing a product.

Traditional pain-point marketing ('Aren't you tired of...') attracts people stuck in their problems and reinforces a negative state. 'Mirror Messaging' attracts your 'Highest Self' buyer by reflecting the transformation they seek, calling in people who are actively looking for a solution.

Startup founders often sell visionary upside, but the majority of customers—especially in enterprise—purchase products to avoid pain or reduce risk (e.g., missing revenue targets). GTM messaging should pivot from the "art of the possible" to risk mitigation to resonate more effectively with buyers.

While you obsess over perfecting fonts and branding, your ideal client is desperately searching for a solution to an urgent problem. They care about fixing their issue—whether it's saving their marriage or growing revenue—not about the aesthetic perfection of your website. Focus on solving the problem, not on achieving a flawless presentation.

Bizzabo created a campaign personifying the frustrations of its main competitor's customers. By directly addressing specific pain points heard in sales calls, the campaign resonated deeply with prospects and highlighted Bizzabo's superior solutions in a memorable, targeted way.

Don't pitch features. The salesperson's role is to use questions to widen the gap between a prospect's current painful reality and their aspirational future. The tension created in this 'buying zone' is what motivates a purchase, not a list of your product's capabilities.

Modern advertising weaponizes fear to generate sales. By creating or amplifying insecurities about health, social status, or safety, companies manufacture a problem that their product can conveniently solve, contributing to a baseline level of societal anxiety for commercial gain.