Marketing messages should appeal to two distinct buyer motivations. Some are drawn to positive future outcomes ("painting possibility"), while others are driven to escape current struggles ("running from the pain"). Effective campaigns test and incorporate both angles to maximize reach and resonance with a wider audience.

Buyers are motivated either by moving toward a desired outcome (possibility) or away from a problem (pain). Marketers often unconsciously favor one style based on their own personality. Crafting copy that addresses both motivations allows you to resonate with a broader, more diverse audience.

Go beyond simple customization and build proposals using the customer's own words and lingo from discovery calls. Reflecting their exact language back to them proves you listened and understood their unique pain. This makes them feel heard and emotionally connects them to the solution, creating urgency.

While serving a past version of yourself works initially, clinging to this strategy stunts growth. As your expertise evolves, your messaging gets stuck on beginner problems. This attracts buyers requiring constant convincing, not those ready for the advanced transformation you now offer.

Overly nurturing content often attracts 'non-buyer energy'—people who are inspired but never purchase because you've given everything away for free. Shift to 'activating' content that embodies conviction and authority, which mirrors possibility and attracts buyers ready to invest immediately.

Don't pitch features. The salesperson's role is to use questions to widen the gap between a prospect's current painful reality and their aspirational future. The tension created in this 'buying zone' is what motivates a purchase, not a list of your product's capabilities.

Move beyond selling products or solutions. The highest level of selling is articulating the customer's problem so well, and expanding on its implications, that they see you as the only one who truly understands and can solve it.

To sell effectively, avoid leading with product features. Instead, ask diagnostic questions to uncover the buyer's specific problems and desired outcomes. Then, frame your solution using their own words, confirming that your product meets the exact needs they just articulated. This transforms a pitch into a collaborative solution.

Marketing often mistakenly positions the product as the hero of the story. The correct framing is to position the customer as the hero on a journey. Your product is merely the powerful tool or guide that empowers them to solve their problem and achieve success, which is a more resonant and effective narrative.