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Many young men today feel disconnected from the historical privileges of patriarchy yet are blamed for its existence. They don't feel like members of a dominant group while navigating a world of declining opportunities, leading to resentment and a sense they are being punished for advantages they never received.

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The economic struggles of young men are not just a result of market forces but a direct consequence of policies that have systematically shifted wealth from younger to older generations. This manifests in unaffordable education and housing, crushing debt, and lower relative wages compared to their parents and grandparents.

The political left often alienates young men by framing them as 'the problem,' while the far-right offers a regressive, misogynistic vision. This failure from both sides to constructively address the genuine challenges young men face leaves them vulnerable to extremist narratives that thrive in the resulting ideological vacuum.

The successful fight for women's equality has inadvertently created a blind spot for the growing problems facing men, such as higher suicide rates and lower college enrollment. This 'elite neglect' from the left has alienated male voters, who feel their problems are ignored or that they are seen as the problem.

Scott Galloway argues the far right recognized the crisis facing young men before the left. While their solutions were regressive—blaming women and minorities—their early diagnosis of the problem created a political vacuum they successfully filled, attracting a disenchanted male demographic.

Unlike many cultures, modern America lacks a defining moment that marks a boy's transition into manhood. This cultural void can lead to confusion. Historically, institutions like the military or intentional acts by fathers served this purpose, but their decline has left a developmental gap.

The crisis among young men stems from a societal narrative that pathologizes their core biological impulses. Traits like aggression, dominance, and ambition, which are natural drivers, are now deemed toxic. This creates internal conflict and a sense of worthlessness, contributing to 'deaths of despair.'

Historically, men derived group identity from being "the default" within societal institutions. As these institutions lose their central hold, some men are experiencing a disorienting loss of power, leading them to form radical, grievance-based tribes to find a new sense of identity.

The struggles and pathologies seen in young men are not just an isolated gender issue. They are a leading indicator that the broader societal belief in upward mobility—'we can all do well'—is eroding. This group is the first to react when reliable paths to success seem blocked.

The crisis facing young men is fundamentally economic. Their declining viability as providers prevents family formation, a cornerstone of societal stability. This economic frustration leads to anger and radicalization, making the "lonely, broke young man" a uniquely destabilizing force in society.

The system of American patriarchy, which elevates dominance, is detrimental even to its primary beneficiaries. It forces men to sever their natural connectedness to others and deny their own vulnerability, leading to negative personal and societal outcomes.

Young Men Feel They Must Pay for the Sins of Their Grandfathers' Patriarchy | RiffOn