Historically, men derived group identity from being "the default" within societal institutions. As these institutions lose their central hold, some men are experiencing a disorienting loss of power, leading them to form radical, grievance-based tribes to find a new sense of identity.
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Scott Galloway argues the far right recognized the crisis facing young men before the left. While their solutions were regressive—blaming women and minorities—their early diagnosis of the problem created a political vacuum they successfully filled, attracting a disenchanted male demographic.
Humans have a "God-shaped hole"—a fundamental need for shared values and community, historically filled by religion. As formal religion wanes, the internet facilitates the creation of new tribes. These online groups provide belonging but are often pathological and based on grievance.
Productive conversations about men's struggles are stifled by a societal "gag reflex." This is caused by the far-right co-opting the issue with regressive solutions and the far-left reframing it as men *being* the problem, leading to immediate accusations of misogyny.
While the right promotes a flawed version of masculinity, the left's common response is to suggest men adopt more feminine traits. Galloway argues this is ineffective because it fails to offer an aspirational, positive vision of masculinity, leaving many men feeling alienated and unrepresented.
When a demographic feels perpetually attacked for an unchangeable trait, they are psychologically primed to unify around that identity. This dynamic explains the rise of controversial figures who capitalize on that reactive sentiment, becoming a predictable societal counter-reaction.
The struggles and pathologies seen in young men are not just an isolated gender issue. They are a leading indicator that the broader societal belief in upward mobility—'we can all do well'—is eroding. This group is the first to react when reliable paths to success seem blocked.
The crisis facing young men is fundamentally economic. Their declining viability as providers prevents family formation, a cornerstone of societal stability. This economic frustration leads to anger and radicalization, making the "lonely, broke young man" a uniquely destabilizing force in society.
Society functions because humans cooperate based on shared beliefs like values or religion. These systems act as a shorthand for trust and alignment, allowing cooperation between strangers. This makes the erosion of a common value set the most significant threat to societal cohesion.
Contrary to the 'lone wolf' trope, mature masculinity is fundamentally expressed through relationships—as a father, husband, colleague, or community member. A man cannot fully realize his masculinity in isolation; it requires a social and relational context to be meaningful.