Technology, particularly dating apps, has structured the romantic landscape into a hyper-competitive market. This system funnels the majority of female attention to a small percentage of men, creating a 'have' and 'have-not' dynamic that mirrors wealth disparity and fuels the incel narrative of a rigged system.
The term 'incel' (involuntary celibate) is often a misnomer. Many struggling young men are 'V-cells' (voluntary celibates) because they opt for victimhood and inaction over the self-improvement required to build relationships. Their situation is presented as a result of choices, not an inescapable fate.
An actionable strategy can dramatically improve a young man's prospects. By exercising three times a week, working 30+ hours out of the house, and socializing with strangers three times a month, one can achieve a level of proactivity and engagement that places them in the top 5% of their peers.
The political left often alienates young men by framing them as 'the problem,' while the far-right offers a regressive, misogynistic vision. This failure from both sides to constructively address the genuine challenges young men face leaves them vulnerable to extremist narratives that thrive in the resulting ideological vacuum.