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Effective persuasion follows a specific neurological sequence. First, grab the instinctual "reptilian brain" (See). Second, connect with the emotional "limbic brain" (Appeal). Only then should you provide facts to the rational "neocortex" to justify the purchase (Engage/Buy). Reversing this order fails.
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