An investor's best career P&L winners are not immediate yeses. They often involve an initial pass by either the investor or the company. This shows that timing and building relationships over multiple rounds can be more crucial than a single early-stage decision, as a 'missed round' isn't a 'missed company'.

Prepared's founder faced 'no's' from customers, investors, and parents. He persisted not because he was trying to build a company, but because of a stubborn, personal passion to solve a problem—believing he could make things 'slightly better' even if he ultimately failed.

Negative feedback that dismisses your idea as 'nuts' is incredibly valuable. This extreme reaction forces you to rigorously test your core assumptions, revealing whether you are fundamentally wrong and saving time, or 'deadly right' about a non-obvious market shift.

Instead of dismissing harsh criticism, extract the underlying truth. A brutal investor rejection focused Gamma on intertwining product and growth from the very beginning, acknowledging the difficulty of competing against incumbents. This became a foundational part of their strategy.

The founders of Free Soul endured multiple rejections, including literally being laughed out of rooms. They frame this brutal process as a necessary filter that weeded out misaligned VCs and ultimately led them to investors who were personally connected to their mission.

To truly validate their idea, Moonshot AI's founders deliberately sought negative feedback. This approach of "trying to get the no's" ensures honest market signals, helping them avoid the trap of false positive validation from contacts who are just being polite.

The most driven entrepreneurs are often fueled by foundational traumas. Understanding a founder's past struggles—losing family wealth or social slights—provides deep insight into their intensity, work ethic, and resilience. It's a powerful, empathetic tool for diligence beyond the balance sheet.