An executive who hated his boss reframed his problem from 'I need a new job' to 'My boss needs a new job.' He gave his boss's resume to a headhunter, who found the boss a new position. The executive was then promoted into the role, solving his problem without having to leave.

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Don't wait for a promotion or for the perfect role to be created. The most effective path to leadership is to proactively identify and take on critical, unowned tasks within your organization. This demonstrates value and allows you to carve out a new role for yourself based on proven impact.

Instead of hiding the decision to layer a star employee, Harvey's CEO advises involving them directly in the hiring process for their new manager. While this risks them leaving, it's a calculated bet on trust. Success means they respect the decision, feel valued, and are primed to learn from their new leader.

Terminating an employee shouldn't be viewed solely as a negative outcome. Often, a lack of success is due to a mismatch in chemistry, timing, or culture. Parting ways can be a necessary catalyst that enables the individual to find a different environment where their skills allow them to thrive, benefiting both parties in the long run.

A simple yet powerful way to assess your career trajectory is to evaluate your direct superior's role. If you have no desire to eventually hold that position, it's a strong signal that you are on an unsuitable path and need to change direction.

When hired externally into a role existing employees wanted, your first job is to build trust. Frame your presence as a net positive for their careers by understanding their goals and actively helping them grow. Show them you are an enabler for their success.

Don't be afraid to surface problems to executives, as their job is almost entirely focused on what's not working. Withholding a problem is unhelpful; clarifying and framing it is incredibly valuable. Your champion isn't offending their boss by raising an issue, they're demonstrating strategic awareness.

A manager's highest duty is to an employee's fulfillment, not just their performance. When a top performer is not personally aligned with their role, a leader should actively help them find a better fit—even if it means using their own social capital to place them at another organization.

Blaming external factors like a "bad market" or "no good talent" makes you powerless. Rephrasing the problem as a personal skill deficit—e.g., "I lack the skill to attract talent"—immediately makes it solvable because you can learn new skills. This puts you back in control of the outcome.

Instead of trying to change a toxic superior, which is often futile, focus on leading your own team differently. Build such powerful connection, engagement, and results that your boss has no choice but to recognize the success of your approach, creating a powerful argument for culture change from the bottom up.

Firing someone feels adversarial until you reframe it as a win-win. The employee wants to be successful and valued; if your team isn't the right place for that, helping them move on is a service to their career, not a disservice. This mindset changes the entire dynamic.