Don't sell change as a seamless process. Like a surgeon detailing post-op recovery, leaders must be transparent about the chaotic and painful phase of transition. This manages expectations, builds trust, and helps people endure the 'psychological soreness' of transformation.

Don't just hand an integration plan to functional leaders post-close. Involve them early in the process as co-architects. Their input is crucial for validating financial models and strategic assumptions, ensuring realistic expectations and fostering ownership of the deal's success.

A one-size-fits-all integration process can destroy the agility of smaller acquisitions. Rockwell Automation developed separate playbooks for small, medium, and large targets. This tiered approach allows the acquirer to apply necessary safeguards while preserving the target's operational speed, preventing process friction.

To ensure Day 1 alignment and retain key talent, treat integration planning as a collaborative process. Share the developing integration plan with the target's leadership during due diligence. This allows them to validate assumptions, provide critical feedback, and feel like partners in building the future company, rather than having a plan imposed on them.

Combining strategy, M&A, and integration under a single leader provides a full lifecycle, enterprise-wide view. This structure breaks down silos and creates a "closed-loop system" where post-deal integration performance and lessons learned directly feed back into future strategy and deal theses, refining success metrics beyond financials.

Deals fail post-close when teams confuse systems integration (IT, HR processes) with value creation (hitting business case targets). The integration plan must be explicitly driven by the value creation thesis—like hiring 10 reps to drive cross-sell—not a generic checklist.

To combat decision paralysis during integration, implement a regimented playbook with RASI charts (Responsible, Accountable, Consulted, Informed). Critically, decisions are time-bound with clear milestones. If a decision isn't made within the specified timeframe, it is automatically escalated, forcing resolution and maintaining momentum.

A separate Integration Management Office (IMO) creates a risky handoff. A better model for agile teams is for the Corp Dev professional who sourced and led the deal to pivot and own the integration plan post-close. This ensures the original deal thesis is carried through execution without loss of context.

During a merger, prioritize people over process. Technical integration is secondary to building trust between teams. Use simple, cultural activities like joint happy hours and "show-and-tells" about the tech stack to humanize the engineering effort and foster empathetic collaboration early on.