A study of military officers found that those with a strong sense of calling were less likely to perceive their careers as stalled. This deep connection to their work fosters resilience and organizational commitment, even in the absence of traditional upward progression.

At age 44, Matt Spielman reframed his career pivot not as a risk, but as a mitigation of a greater one: staying on the wrong path. He believed waking up at 55 having not pursued his passion would be a far worse outcome than the uncertainty of starting his coaching practice.

Purpose isn't exclusive to high-status professions. Any job can become a source of deep purpose by connecting its daily tasks to a larger, positive impact. A NASA custodian can be "putting a man on the moon," and a parking attendant checking tire treads can be ensuring driver safety. Purpose is a mindset.

The first half of a creative life is the "Hero's Journey": finding your calling. The second, harder part is the "Artist's Journey": the daily, unglamorous work of honing your craft and asking, "What is my unique gift?" This shift from discovery to execution is a critical transition.

Discovering what you genuinely enjoy requires breaking out of your corporate mindset, much like physical therapy for a forgotten muscle. You must force yourself into uncomfortable, unfamiliar situations—like free tango classes or random online courses—to build the 'muscle memory' for passion and exploration.

Major career pivots are not always driven by logic or market data. A deeply personal and seemingly unrelated experience, like being emotionally moved by a film (Oppenheimer), can act as the catalyst to overcome years of resistance and commit to a challenging path one had previously sworn off.

A linear career path is not required for success. Businesses ultimately value high performers who demonstrate an ownership mentality and consistently drive impact. Focusing on helping the business win creates opportunities to move across roles and industries, making your journey more valuable.

Executive Coach Matt Spielman defines success as a two-step process: first, having the self-awareness to listen to one's inner voice, and second, possessing the courage to act on that insight. This framework separates internal discovery from the external action required to live an authentic life.

The intense search for a career "calling" has become psychologically parallel to the search for a romantic soulmate. Both are driven by a "don't settle" mindset and create impossibly high expectations, often leading to disappointment and strained relationships when reality doesn't match the ideal.