Scott Galloway asserts that boys are emotionally and neurologically weaker than girls, making the absence of a male role model a critical point of failure. He argues it is especially important for single mothers raising sons to proactively involve positive male figures—like uncles, coaches, or family friends—in their lives for healthy development.

Data suggests that growing up without a biological father is a stronger predictor of a young man ending up in jail by age 30 than either his race or his family's income level. This highlights a profound social crisis rooted in family structure, distinct from purely economic or racial factors.

The loss of a male role model makes a boy more likely to be incarcerated than to graduate college. The same event has almost no statistical impact on a girl's life outcomes, highlighting boys' greater neurological and emotional vulnerability.

When raising boys, a father's actions are far more impactful than his words. Instead of lecturing on what it means to be a man, consistently demonstrating service, respect, and responsibility will be internalized by a son over time, even if the lesson isn't explicit or is initially met with embarrassment.

High-profile abuse scandals have created a chilling effect, making men hesitant to mentor boys for fear of being viewed with suspicion. This understandable reticence creates a critical mentorship gap for boys, especially those without a father figure, who need positive male guidance.

While young men may be fans, it's their mothers who are the most effective supporters and advocates for addressing the issues facing them. Mothers see firsthand when their sons are struggling compared to their daughters, making them a powerful and credible cohort for advancing the conversation productively.

Unlike many cultures, modern America lacks a defining moment that marks a boy's transition into manhood. This cultural void can lead to confusion. Historically, institutions like the military or intentional acts by fathers served this purpose, but their decline has left a developmental gap.

Universal childcare, typically framed as a feminist policy, could be profoundly beneficial for men. By alleviating financial stress on young families, it could reduce divorce rates. This is critical as men are significantly more prone to self-harm and negative outcomes following a divorce, making family economic stability a key men's issue.

The struggles and pathologies seen in young men are not just an isolated gender issue. They are a leading indicator that the broader societal belief in upward mobility—'we can all do well'—is eroding. This group is the first to react when reliable paths to success seem blocked.