Snobbery reduces a person's worth to a superficial detail like clothing. A more meaningful framework, inspired by Nietzsche, is an "elitism" based on one's soul—valuing qualities like kindness, courage, and generosity as the true, provocative markers of a person's worth, not status.

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In large, impersonal societies, it is difficult to gauge a person's character (virtue). Consequently, people seek status through easily observable metrics like wealth and achievement (success). This focus on quantifiable symbols of worth drives persistent status anxiety.

A useful interpretation of Nietzsche's famous quote is not about religion itself, but the death of a society's unified value system. Without a common set of foundational beliefs, factions can no longer find common ground, leading to the "horrific consequences" of intractable conflict.

Nietzsche's thought experiment of eternally reliving one's life forces moral clarity, mirroring Warren Buffett's "inner scorecard." Both concepts champion making decisions based on internal principles and integrity, rather than external validation, social pressure, or legality.

Great artists and thinkers don't necessarily have unique ideas. Instead, they possess the courage and self-esteem to grant significance to the common, relatable thoughts that most people dismiss. In their work, we find our own neglected ideas finally given legitimacy.

Wisdom is not tied to professional status. True insight often comes from individuals whose vocation doesn't reflect their deep understanding. Seek mentorship from people you want to emulate as a person, not just those with outwardly successful careers, as vocation is not identity.

The ultimate aim is not to achieve conventional success, but to fully express your unique self. This lifelong project is paradoxical: you cannot become unique by yourself. You need others—friends, family, customers—to reflect your authentic self back to you, helping you see who you are.

When eulogized, a person's career accomplishments are footnotes. The core of their legacy is their character—how they behaved and treated others—and their service. This reality should inform how we prioritize our daily actions, focusing on behavior over status or material success.

There is a critical distinction between being 'nice' and being 'good'. A nice guy's primary motivation is to get along and be liked, avoiding conflict. A good man, however, is defined by the ideals he stands for and is willing to stand against things that violate them, even if it makes him unpopular.

Morality is not a static trait you possess but a state you achieve through action. Engaging in pro-social behavior shapes your identity as a moral person, creating a virtuous cycle where action precedes and builds character, which can then inspire others.

If he could implant one idea into the world's population, author Mike Perry would choose the understanding that "kindness is not weakness." He argues that bravado is a poor replacement for genuine empathy and that this fundamental misunderstanding is at the root of many societal ills.