Technology exposes us to limitless possibilities—from parenting styles to body modifications. This creates a pervasive insecurity and a 'rabid delusion of endless craving.' The constant awareness of what others are doing or have drives a pathological need to keep up, leading to profound consumerism and dissatisfaction.

The desire to flaunt wealth isn't always about status; it can be an attempt to heal a deep-seated emotional wound from being 'snubbed' or feeling inadequate in the past. This behavior serves to prove to oneself, and others, that one has overcome a past social or economic scar.

Modern culture has transformed productivity from a performance metric into a measure of a person's deservingness and identity. This is dangerous because it falsely suggests hard work is the sole variable for success, ignoring systemic factors and harming well-being.

A successful founder feels like a "failure" because his monetary success doesn't match his self-assessed talent and potential. He views wealth not just for lifestyle, but as the primary "scoreboard" for the "business game," and feels his score is too low to validate his effort.

A major source of modern anxiety is the tendency to benchmark one's life against a minuscule fraction of outliers—the world's most famous and wealthy people. This creates a distorted view of success. Shifting focus to the vast majority of humanity provides a healthier perspective.

Chasing visual markers of success (cars, houses) often leads to hollow victories. True fulfillment comes from defining and pursuing the *feeling* of success, which is often found in simple, personal moments—like pancakes on a Saturday morning—rather than glamorous, external accomplishments.

Beyond a certain threshold, net worth can stop providing happiness and become a social burden. When friends, family, and the community become aware of one's wealth, their expectations change, creating social pressures and liabilities that can outweigh the financial benefits and diminish overall well-being.

Unprecedented global prosperity creates a vacuum of real adversity, leading people to invent anxieties and fixate on trivial problems. Lacking the perspective from genuine struggle, many complain about first-world issues while ignoring their immense privilege, leading to a state where things are 'so good, it's bad.'

In a truly meritocratic system, failure isn't attributed to bad luck but is seen as a reflection of personal inadequacy. This removes external explanations for struggle, making failure profoundly shameful and psychologically damaging compared to cultures that believe in fate.