Ty Haney, founder of Outdoor Voices, reveals a key community-building step: relinquish brand control. By empowering super fans to host local events, the brand turns them into 'co-owners' of the experience. This generates more authentic engagement and word-of-mouth than centrally-managed marketing ever could.

Marketers should create temporary, high-energy events rather than long-term, low-engagement communities. A time-bound "24-hour vault unlock" or a 30-day pop-up group generates urgency and a fear of missing out, driving significant participation that permanent online spaces often fail to sustain, even in "boring" industries.

Instead of traditional marketing, using obscure channels forces your most dedicated fans to dig for information. This transforms them into evangelists who spread the word to the wider, more passive audience, creating an organic and powerful marketing engine built on scarcity and discovery.

The world of Fortune 500 executives is a small, interconnected community. Rather than casting a wide marketing net, focus all energy on securing one key 'lighthouse' customer. Over-deliver value for them, even if the deal isn't profitable. Their endorsement and introductions to peers are more effective than any marketing channel.

The global "Copywriters Unite" community grew successfully by rejecting formal structures. Simple, recurring pub meetups with no tickets, speakers, or agenda create a low-pressure environment where authentic connections form easily around a shared professional identity.

While customer experience (CX) focuses on smooth transactions, customer intimacy builds deep, lasting loyalty by fostering closeness. This is achieved through empathetic actions in "moments that matter," creating powerful brand stories that resonate more than any marketing campaign.

By empowering ambassadors to host local events, Outdoor Voices turned passive fans into active co-owners. This gave events authentic authorship, making them more powerful for attendees and creating a self-perpetuating flywheel of community growth and brand loyalty.

Coterie achieves high customer retention without a traditional points-based loyalty program. Instead, it builds loyalty through concierge-level services like text-based order management and proactive, personalized 'surprise and delight' moments, such as sending flowers for a new baby's birth.

Dermalogica's founder noticed qualified students retaking classes not just for education, but for community. This insight applies broadly: the strongest pull for a service business is often the connection and sisterhood with like-minded peers. The service (e.g., a fitness class) can be the excuse for the real product: community.