During his final offer dinner with Carl Thoma, Orlando Bravo asked for carried interest. Thoma was so put off by the request that he almost withdrew the offer, teaching Bravo a crucial lesson about earning your place before making demands.
By defending the pro rata rights of early backers against new, powerful investors, founders play an "infinite game." This builds a reputation for fairness that compounds over time, attracting higher-quality partners and investors in future rounds.
To maintain an owner's mindset, the speaker asked his new employer not to tell him the total number of company shares. This counterintuitive move prevented him from being demotivated by a small percentage and signaled extreme commitment, which ultimately led to his stake increasing from 0.4% to 20%.
Founders should be wary of earn-out clauses. Acquirers can impose layers of pointless processes and overhead costs, tanking the profitability of a successful business and making it impossible for the founder to ever receive their earn-out payment.
The difference between a true partner and an employee is whether you seek their counsel on complex problems. If you consistently go to them for advice when you're unsure, they're a partner. If you only give them direction, they are not a "thought partner," which is a red flag for a C-level executive role.
Orlando Bravo's first deals as a young PE professional were a catastrophe, with two going to zero. His mentor, Carl Thoma, gave him a second chance but with a crucial lesson: you can make mistakes, but you cannot make the same *type* of mistakes again.
Limited Partners (LPs) often celebrate when a team member is hired away for a bigger role, viewing it as successful talent development. In stark contrast, General Partners (GPs) in private equity and venture capital typically view such a departure as a failure or a negative event.
Passion has a dark side in the workplace. Highly passionate individuals are often less likely to negotiate their salary because they worry that bringing up money will make others doubt the authenticity of their commitment. This can lead to them being underpaid and exploited.
Before investing time to create a perfect offer, secure a conditional commitment by asking, 'If I can deliver on these specific things we've discussed, do we have a deal?' This tactic prevents the prospect from backing out to 'think about it' and ensures your efforts are aligned with a committed buyer.
Discussing pricing early doesn't mean you're in the proposal stage. True proposal and negotiation begins only after you have secured explicit agreement on the problem, the solution, and from the key decision-maker. At this point, the deal would close if it were free; price is the only remaining variable.
Orlando Bravo didn't get a return offer from his internship. Instead of giving up, he sent 500 resumes and cold-called firms, landing his pivotal role just two weeks before graduating. It shows that persistence, not a linear path, is key to breaking into competitive fields.