Building delightful products isn't guesswork. A four-step process involves: 1) identifying functional and emotional user motivators, 2) turning them into opportunities, 3) ideating solutions and classifying them, and 4) validating them against a checklist for things like inclusivity and business impact.

The moments in a customer journey where expectations are lowest (e.g., a mandatory safety video) are the greatest opportunities for brand building. By turning a dull requirement into extravagant entertainment, a brand can generate immense goodwill and memorability.

Product 'taste' is often narrowly defined as aesthetics. A better analogy is a restaurant: great food (visuals) is necessary but not sufficient. Taste encompasses the entire end-to-end user journey, from being greeted at the door to paying the check. Every interaction must feel crafted and delightful.

As software commoditizes, the buying experience itself becomes a key differentiator. Map the entire customer journey, from awareness to renewal, and design unique, valuable interactions at each stage. This shifts the focus from transactional selling to creating a memorable, human-centric experience that drives purchasing decisions.

While customer experience (CX) focuses on smooth transactions, customer intimacy builds deep, lasting loyalty by fostering closeness. This is achieved through empathetic actions in "moments that matter," creating powerful brand stories that resonate more than any marketing campaign.

Instead of matching rivals' strengths, identify their weaknesses or overlooked details, like a poor coffee program. Focusing on these neglected areas allows you to create a unique, best-in-class experience and gain a competitive foothold. Guidara's team calls this 'reverse benchmarking.'

Delight goes beyond surface-level features. It's about creating products that solve practical problems while also addressing users' emotional states, like reducing stress or creating joy. This is achieved by removing friction, anticipating needs, and exceeding expectations.

Coterie achieves high customer retention without a traditional points-based loyalty program. Instead, it builds loyalty through concierge-level services like text-based order management and proactive, personalized 'surprise and delight' moments, such as sending flowers for a new baby's birth.

In a marketplace with endless options, product features are table stakes. The deciding factor for buyers is now the total experience. Salespeople have lost control of the buying cycle and must now influence it by delivering exceptional service and building trust from the first interaction.