While struggling with depression, Boyd Varty found relief by following a subtle 'uptick of energy' he felt when pretending to be a writer. This highlights the power of trusting small, non-rational, bodily sensations as a compass for major life decisions, bypassing purely logical analysis.

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When a decision is truly aligned, external factors fall into place with ease. Constant struggle and forcing outcomes are signs you're operating from mental obsession or desire, not clear intuitive guidance. Effortless flow is the key indicator.

Contrary to popular belief, intuition isn't just a "gut feeling" or brain pattern. Research, particularly from trauma studies like "The Body Keeps the Score," shows that wisdom and life patterns are physically embedded in the body's fascia and musculature.

When facing a major career crossroads, the goal isn't to find the objectively "best" option, as it's unknowable. The key is to make a decision based on intuition, commit to it fully, and refuse to entertain "what if" scenarios about the paths not taken.

An entrepreneur expected new strategies at a retreat but found the real transformation in uncomfortable embodiment practices. This shows that the next business level isn't always a new tactic, but a fundamental shift in being and operating.

Discovering what you genuinely enjoy requires breaking out of your corporate mindset, much like physical therapy for a forgotten muscle. You must force yourself into uncomfortable, unfamiliar situations—like free tango classes or random online courses—to build the 'muscle memory' for passion and exploration.

Major career pivots are not always driven by logic or market data. A deeply personal and seemingly unrelated experience, like being emotionally moved by a film (Oppenheimer), can act as the catalyst to overcome years of resistance and commit to a challenging path one had previously sworn off.

Labels like 'imposter syndrome' or 'feeling like a failure' are purely mental stories, not physical realities. Your body doesn't know what 'failure' is; it only experiences sensations like a churning stomach or tightness in the chest. By focusing on the raw physical feeling, you disconnect from the mind's debilitating narrative.

High-achievers default to a mind-first approach (logic, safety). True intuitive creation requires reversing this hierarchy: prioritize spirit (energy), then check in with the body (somatic response), and finally use the mind for execution and safety.

Goals (e.g., "be a doctor," "be happy") are outcome-focused and can lead to frustration if not achieved. Intentions (e.g., "act with kindness") are process-focused and within your control in any moment. Centering your life on intentions creates a stable internal anchor, regardless of your job title or external circumstances.

People with a strong calling don't just work harder out of sheer will. Research indicates the primary mechanism is increased enjoyment of the work itself. This positive feeling directly translates into greater effort on relevant tasks, supporting the "love what you do" axiom.