Viewing customer relationships through a strict Return on Investment (ROI) lens creates a toxic, transactional dynamic. A "Desire to Invest" (DTI) model prioritizes building genuine, long-term connections and empathy, much like a healthy human relationship, rather than tracking a ledger of exchanges.

Instead of viewing them as separate efforts, businesses should link customer retention and acquisition. By unifying data to better re-engage existing customers via owned channels like email and SMS, brands increase lifetime value. This, in turn, reduces the long-term pressure and cost associated with acquiring entirely new customers.

Salespeople often disengage after a deal closes. However, since they built the initial trust, they must stay involved during onboarding. This maintains customer momentum and ensures the relationship transitions smoothly, which directly impacts renewals, referrals, and future sales.

The highest predictor of customer retention is an early success. Use AI in your onboarding to ask new clients, "What's the fastest, smallest win we can create for you?" Then, use automation to build and deliver that specific solution, ensuring immediate progress and long-term loyalty.

While customer experience (CX) focuses on smooth transactions, customer intimacy builds deep, lasting loyalty by fostering closeness. This is achieved through empathetic actions in "moments that matter," creating powerful brand stories that resonate more than any marketing campaign.

Coterie achieves high customer retention without a traditional points-based loyalty program. Instead, it builds loyalty through concierge-level services like text-based order management and proactive, personalized 'surprise and delight' moments, such as sending flowers for a new baby's birth.

Salespeople often worry about being annoying during follow-up because they frame it as a transactional attempt to close a deal. To overcome this, reframe follow-up as an opportunity to build and enhance the relationship. By consistently providing value—sharing insights, making introductions, or offering resources—the interaction becomes helpful rather than pestering.

Never get complacent with your best accounts. Your competitors are actively targeting them. Proactive engagement and value delivery are not just for growth but are a critical defense against poaching by rivals who see your success as their opportunity.

Don't just sell a product; become an indispensable part of your customer's workflow. By offering integrated products and services, you create a value ecosystem that locks out competitors and makes leaving an impractical and undesirable option.