Donald Spann's virtual receptionist company, Vicky Virtual, was acquired by its very first customer. Another of his businesses was acquired by the recipient of his first-ever cold call. This demonstrates the immense, long-term strategic value of building genuine, lasting relationships from the absolute start of a venture.

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The founder advocates for being a "fountain, not a drain." He uses "soft touchpoints"—like texting a screenshot of a partner's ad seen in public—to stay top-of-mind without asking for anything. This builds genuine, non-transactional connections that pay dividends when a real "ask" is eventually needed.

The world of Fortune 500 executives is a small, interconnected community. Rather than casting a wide marketing net, focus all energy on securing one key 'lighthouse' customer. Over-deliver value for them, even if the deal isn't profitable. Their endorsement and introductions to peers are more effective than any marketing channel.

Rejecting transactional methods like cold calls, founder Muriel Faberge views relationship-building as an art form. She approaches each new connection like a painting, aiming for meaningful and sustainable interactions rather than immediate sales, which ultimately drives her business development.

A customer relationship isn't a one-time transaction; it's a long-term commitment. Like a good marriage, you must continuously 'date' your clients by providing new value, showing appreciation, and never taking the relationship for granted.

Instead of constantly chasing new leads, businesses can find immense growth by deepening existing relationships. A tech company ignored a referral partner for two years, but two follow-up meetings later generated $11.2 million, demonstrating the untapped potential within current networks.

A breakthrough for new salespeople is changing their mindset on initial calls. Instead of trying to immediately find a problem to sell against, focus on making a human connection and leading with genuine curiosity. This approach lowers pressure and fosters a more collaborative discovery process.

Salespeople often worry about being annoying during follow-up because they frame it as a transactional attempt to close a deal. To overcome this, reframe follow-up as an opportunity to build and enhance the relationship. By consistently providing value—sharing insights, making introductions, or offering resources—the interaction becomes helpful rather than pestering.

Effective follow-up isn't about nagging; it's about being a 'barnacle on a boat.' This means staying in contact persistently, not by asking for the sale, but by delivering value every time. This strategy keeps you top-of-mind, building trust so that when the customer is finally ready to buy, you are the logical choice.

To build immediate trust and demonstrate value, QED partners engage with founders by simulating a board-level conversation from the first meeting. This "pretend I'm your investor" approach showcases their expertise and builds rapport, proving their founder-friendliness rather than just promising it.