Reframe patriotism not as blind nationalism, but as acknowledging the immense, unearned privilege of one's birthplace and its opportunities. This creates a sense of gratitude and responsibility—a debt owed to the society, systems, and people whose sacrifices created that environment of opportunity.

To reduce hostility between political rivals, framing the conversation around a shared superordinate identity (e.g., 'we are all Americans') is highly effective. This strategy creates a foundation of unity and common purpose before tackling specific points of difference, making subsequent dialogue more constructive.

America is not just a nation of immigrants but of emigrants—people who made the bold choice to leave behind collapsing societies. The Irish fled famine, Germans fled revolution, and Chinese, Vietnamese, and Iranians fled communism and turmoil. This history of leaving failing states is a core part of the American identity, not a betrayal of one's homeland.

A key reason for past legislative success was that leaders shared a common identity forged in military service. Reinstating mandatory national service could create 'connective tissue' among diverse young people, fostering a unified identity as citizens first and foremost, before individual identity groups.

A simple test for a political system's quality is whether it must use force to retain its citizens. The Berlin Wall and North Korea's borders were built to prevent people from leaving, not to stop others from entering. This need to contain a population is an implicit confession by the state that life is better elsewhere, contrasting with free societies that attract immigrants.

Immigration's success or failure is determined by values alignment, not ethnicity. The US historically integrated diverse groups because they shared a foundational ethos. Current conflicts arise when immigrant populations hold fundamentally different core values from the host nation, creating societal friction regardless of race.

The election of leaders like Japan's female prime minister, who enacts hardline policies, shows that voters are primarily driven by shared values, not identity characteristics. When a leader's ideology matches the electorate's, their gender or race becomes secondary.

The true danger isn't partisan bickering but the collapse of shared cultural institutions like family, faith, and community. These provided a common identity and purpose that held the nation together, and their erosion leaves a void that politics cannot fill, removing the nation's "center of gravity."

People incorrectly attribute societal friction to race when the root cause is a lack of shared beliefs and values. The intense division between the American left and right—often within the same race—proves that assimilation into a common value system is the key to social cohesion, not ethnic homogeneity.