In a storm, buffalo instinctively run directly into it, passing through the bad weather faster. Cows run away but aren't fast enough, prolonging their suffering. This is a powerful metaphor for proactively facing professional and personal challenges head-on to minimize their duration and impact.

"Good" describes positive external circumstances, while "well" describes an internal state of resilience and peace, independent of outside chaos. True satisfaction comes from cultivating this internal well-being, which allows you to handle life's challenges with grace, regardless of the situation's objective "goodness."

Rather than avoiding difficult situations or people, view them as opportunities to practice compassion, kindness, and resilience. These challenges are where you build character and plant seeds for future growth, much like a workout strengthens muscles.

Steve Levitt experienced a lasting sense of peace in India only after admitting he had zero desire to do anything there. This 'indifference to everything' eliminated the stress of striving. When the destination became irrelevant, the journey—even on a crowded bus—became peaceful and opened him up to the universe.

If you feel like you're constantly struggling, it may be because you're forcing old habits into a new season of life. Self-awareness is key. By asking "What season am I in?" and "What am I optimizing for right now?" you can realign your habits with your current reality, reducing friction.

Shift the focus of mental health from coping and feeling comfortable to building the capacity to handle life's challenges. The goal isn't to feel better, but to become a better, more resilient person through difficult experiences.

Stress doesn't come from events, but from our mental resistance to them. "Arguing with what is" is the sole cause of suffering. Accepting reality as it is—without necessarily condoning it—is the path to peace.

High performers need routines, but over-reliance creates fragility. The Stoic concept of "preferred indifference" resolves this paradox. First, know you can thrive in any situation. Then, you can have preferences that optimize performance. This allows you to want something without needing it to function.

When frustrated by something you can't control (traffic, a colleague's behavior), the phrase 'let them' serves as a practical tool. It's not about condoning behavior but about accepting reality to conserve your mental energy. This allows you to focus on what you *can* control: your own response.