As AI assistants learn an individual's preferences, style, and context, their utility becomes deeply personalized. This creates a powerful lock-in effect, making users reluctant to switch to competing platforms, even if those platforms are technically superior.

As AI model performance converges, the key differentiator will become memory. The accumulated context and personal data a model has on a user creates a high switching cost, making it too painful to move to a competitor even for temporarily superior features.

Traditional SaaS switching costs were based on painful data migrations, which LLMs may now automate. The new moat for AI companies is creating deep, customized integrations into a customer's unique operational workflows. This is achieved through long, hands-on pilot periods that make the AI solution indispensable and hard to replace.

Today's LLM memory functions are superficial, recalling basic facts like a user's car model but failing to develop a unique personality. This makes switching between models like ChatGPT and Gemini easy, as there is no deep, personalized connection that creates lock-in. True retention will come from personality, not just facts.

Sam Altman argues that beyond model quality, ChatGPT's stickiest advantage is personalization. He believes as the AI learns a user's context and preferences, it creates a valuable relationship that is difficult for competitors to displace. He likens this deep-seated loyalty to picking a toothpaste brand for life.

Despite ChatGPT building features like Memory and Custom Instructions to create lock-in, users are switching to competitors like Gemini and not missing them. This suggests the consumer AI market is more fragile and less of a winner-take-all monopoly than previously believed, as switching costs are currently very low.

ChatGPT's defensibility stems from its deep personalization over time. The more a user interacts with it, the better it understands them, creating a powerful flywheel. Switching to a competitor becomes emotionally difficult, akin to "ditching a friend."

The ultimate value of AI will be its ability to act as a long-term corporate memory. By feeding it historical data—ICPs, past experiments, key decisions, and customer feedback—companies can create a queryable "brain" that dramatically accelerates onboarding and institutional knowledge transfer.

While personal history in an AI like ChatGPT seems to create lock-in, it is a weaker moat than for media platforms like Google Photos. Text-based context and preferences are relatively easy to export and transfer to a competitor via another LLM, reducing switching friction.