Selling a business often triggers a period of depression. A founder's self-worth is deeply intertwined with the daily grind and pressures of their company. When that is removed, they experience a significant loss and must redefine their identity outside of their work.

Successful founders prioritize cash upfront over potentially larger payouts from complex earnouts. Earnouts often underperform because founders lose control of the business's future performance, leading to dissatisfaction despite a higher on-paper valuation.

A consistent pattern among wealthy founders reveals that worthwhile purchases enhance life by creating more time, improving health, and fostering calm. In contrast, purchases focused on status items like cars and watches are often regretted because they add complexity and responsibility without improving well-being.

While 8% of founders pay themselves nothing to maximize reinvestment for a future exit, this strategy is often regretted. Even among founders who achieved a multi-million dollar exit, many later wished they had paid themselves at least a small salary to improve their quality of life during the building phase.

Contrary to the dream of retiring after an exit, data shows 92% of founders start another project, even those with nine-figure exits. The drive to build is a core part of their identity that a large financial windfall does not eliminate.

Founders who try to perfectly time an exit with market conditions are twice as likely to have second thoughts and report less satisfaction. The most fulfilled founders are those who sell when they are personally ready, regardless of market timing.

Achieving external markers of success, like a multi-million dollar exit, often fails to provide a sense of accomplishment. Instead, it can lead to feelings of emptiness, anxiety, and imposter syndrome because internal self-worth was tied to the struggle, not the outcome.

After selling his company, the founder experienced six months of bliss followed by a period of feeling useless and lacking purpose. This 'valley of shadows' is a common but rarely discussed phenomenon where accomplished founders struggle with a loss of identity and intensity, ultimately driving them to build again.

Beyond financials or deal terms, the single most cited frustration for founders post-acquisition is the loss of control over the company culture they built. This emotional attachment often outweighs other challenges, highlighting what founders truly value.