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Sue Bird's advice to young women is to stop being merely grateful for opportunities and instead start expecting them. She argues that expecting to be paid well and to have opportunities is a crucial mindset shift that changes how individuals—and women as a group—are perceived and valued.

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Women Should Shift From a Career Mindset of Gratitude to One of Expectation | RiffOn