For years, Tabitha Brown prayed for her dreams to come true. She later realized the missing piece was praying for God to *prepare her to keep* the success once she got it. True readiness involves being equipped to handle both the gains and the significant losses that come with achieving a major dream.
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During 20 years of struggle, Tabitha Brown sustained her belief by recognizing small "signs of confirmation." A stranger mistaking her for a TV star or a brief vision of herself on a red carpet acted as crucial fuel, confirming she was on the right path long before tangible success arrived.
Standard preparation often focuses on contingency planning for what could go wrong. A more effective technique is to spend time envisioning and planning for what you will do when things go right. This cognitive shift directs your brain toward success and better prepares you to capitalize on positive moments.
Hoarding money out of fear of past poverty creates a scarcity mindset that repels opportunity. The counterintuitive approach is to accept the possibility of returning to hardship, knowing you have the resilience to survive it again. This detachment from fear creates the positive energy needed to attract wealth.
The entrepreneurial journey is a paradox. You must be delusional enough to believe you can succeed where others have failed. Simultaneously, you must be humble enough to accept being "punched in the face" by daily mistakes and bad decisions without losing momentum.
The most powerful form of preparation isn't trying to predict every outcome. It's developing the core confidence that you can handle uncertainty and figure things out as they come. This mindset allows you to take action despite an unpredictable future, which is the essence of entrepreneurship.
Tabitha Brown distinguishes between dreams and goals. Goals are conscious creations we can achieve or abandon. Dreams are deposited within us, nagging at us and refusing to let us rest until they are realized. This nagging persistence is the ultimate sign of your true purpose.
Tabitha Brown posits a profound spiritual principle: divine blessings are meant for your true self. When you pretend to be someone else, you can't receive what's truly meant for you. Any success achieved while wearing a mask will feel empty because it's for a character you created, not for who you are.
When Tabitha Brown finally achieved massive success, her calm demeanor concerned her husband. She explained that previously, her "flesh" was excited but her spirit knew it wasn't right. Now, with her spirit and flesh aligned, success feels normal, balanced, and like coming home, not like a chaotic win.
Tabitha Brown differentiates between praying out of habit and praying with true intention. The latter, a heartfelt plea to be healed in exchange for surrendering her will, was the catalyst for her personal and professional breakthrough, showing that the *nature* of the prayer matters more than the act itself.
The most common killer of ambitious goals is endless preparation. The impulse to wait until you are fully ready is a form of self-sabotage, a 'con job we work on ourselves.' The key is to take action before you feel 100% prepared, as there will always be reasons to wait.
